How I evaluate my self and face my mistakes

🌿📖☕️ Calm the mind. Enjoy the moment

A post shared by Novella Liyawarman (@novellalw) on May 6, 2017 at 12:23am PDT

What I’ve learned in my 20s is being easy to my-self. Decluttering some aspects in life which made me sick about it. Not all of us want (remember) to evaluate our-self. We always make an excuse about what’s happened to us. Yes, I had ever been in that time. I was afraid to face my own mistakes. I tried to blame “something” when plan didn’t work so well. It takes time to tame my jeopardy mind. But It never late to learn. As long as we still alive let’s learn new things every day.

I usually create my daily log in my Journal. If you never try to make a journal maybe, it’s the best time to do it. Making a journal is easy but consistency is the key.  We’ll never know how far we’ve accomplished tasks in life if there is no documentation or report about it. Ya it was hard at the first time, just do it. I make a bullet points to create it more simple and organize.

Your journal is your rules. You can create your own rules.

I literally write every-things there. What happened at office, my feeling, love-life story, etc etc etc. I just follow my heart when create my daily log. Sometime, I printed a picture, quote, and even I drew some-silly-picture there. Hehe.

Day by day, you can check what you’ve accomplished so far.

Is it what you want?

Did you do something bad ?

Did you make a mistake?

Why your plan didn’t work as well as you’ve planned before?

Are you happy?

Source : Pinterest

Being open with your insecurities paradoxically makes you more confident and charismatic around others. We all have our chosen methods to numb the pain of our problems. But the longer we avoid and the longer we numb, the more painful it will be when we finally do confront our issues.

Love,

Novella